doing a thing like this?
The short answer is that I’m a woman and things relating to attraction and relationships are “chick crack.” I can elaborate further on the answer, but basically my motivation is self-serving.
The seduction community isn’t just about getting laid. (OK , for some guys it is, but certainly not all.) It’s also about becoming a better person. It’s about more self confidence, better interactions with all people, working toward goals, becoming the person they want to be. Too many people stagnate and refuse to take risks, they refuse to face their inner demons and push themselves out of their comfort zone. I like people that are willing to take chances, to break out. If I can’t actually help, I can at least jump up and down on the sidelines, waving pom-poms.
I also have a long abiding casual interest in psychology, sociology, and the dynamics of relationships, dating back to when I took the principles from my Social Psychology class home and started applying them in my long term relationship. (Which failed, but not because of that.) The social influences that cause people to behave in a certain way fascinate me, puzzling out why people respond to the “parlor tricks” of NLP and hypnotic techniques and almost mechanical methodology works so well intrigues me.
So on a social scale, men stand to benefit from increased self-confidence and social skills and women stand to benefit from having more confident, tuned in men approaching them. On a personal level, I find the concepts interesting and the people cool. Everybody wins.
Does that answer the question?






December 6, 2008 at 9:28 pm
I also like using direct openers.I think being agressive is great sometimes, because it does kind of put it all out there and there is no b.s’ing. A question though dont girl’s see through the whole canned “opinion” routines and if they do and they dont like the guy will they usually just play along so as to not hurt his feelings. Also how about just “hello” “How are you doing?” “My name is….” as a direct opener it’s simple, and genuine.